I’m gonna be real, because I’m sick of being typical.

Lately I’ve been seeing this guy Luke and we’ve started doing some new stuff in bed. A few times we just decided to jerk off together. At first I wasn’t sure if that would be enough for me, you know, but we really got into it.

We were laying with, kind of, one arm around the other’s shoulder and we both really got off on watching each other. We’ve done massages, which is great. A couple of times we tried talking dirty and that was cool too. Just the other night I used a can of whipped cream and it was one of the best times we’ve had together.

I’m not saying I don’t still like the usual stuff. I can’t even say I’m always safe with it, or that I’ll ever be safe with it 100% of the time. I don’t use condoms for giving head but for fucking yeah. Well, at least most of the time, yeah. I’m not perfect, but I know what I want. I’m trying to be open-minded, try new things and still have fun. If you’re feeling weird about using condoms, do something where you don’t need to. It’s been great to have some safer sex that’s actually sexy.

All I’m saying is it doesn’t have to be the same old thing every time, you know? I mean, since when did being gay become typical? I refuse to be typical. I refuse to let sex get routine.

For me, being gay is about being yourself, and not being defined by any stereotypes, and not being tied down. Unless that’s your thing, of course.